The game starts like this:
Boy meets girl, girl likes boy, boy is interested, but doesn’t like girl as much.
Boy pretends he’s interested in the things she likes: going to the museums, picnics in the park and attending church.
Boy goes along for a while, girl makes a mistake and invites him to her place.
Boys likes this, he can make himself comfortable, spend less money going out, and he doesn’t have to put up with going to those annoying events she likes.
The trap is slowly set, first, he starts to cancel dates; girl puts up with this behavior. Boy gets smart he suggests that they do things he enjoys, like lying around her place. Girl, objects, boy reminds her how he indulged her in all the activities she enjoys.
Girl gives in after all he is right, isn’t he?
Boy brings over wine and Chinese food. Soon, he ask her to prepare him home cooked meals.
Girl remembers what her mother told her, ” never do wife duties without being a wife.” But she obliges him.
One night boy drinks too much wine and ask to sleep over, girl isn’t comfortable with this, she tells him he has to sleep on the sofa, boy is slick, he agrees.
The next day girl thinks, wow! what a gentlemen, he slept on the sofa without an argument. Girl is being pulled deeper and deeper into boys trap.
Girl, suggests he stay over on weekends, boy agrees. Girl allows him to sleep in the bedroom.
Boy moves slow.
Friday night, they go dancing, both have drinks, however, he drinks less than her, but girls doesn’t notice.
They go back to her place, boys tells her how beautiful she is and that they should make their relationship official, girl agrees. Morning comes boy is gone.
A few days pass she doesn’t hear from him. she calls, he doesn’t answer. She wonders what went wrong.
I can answer that he got what he wanted “THE COOKIE.”
This happens time and time again to women who met men who fake the dating game.
What say you?