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Body parts and Accessories

ATTENTION everyone, may I please have your ATTENTION,  the Mad Dater has something to say, Thank you.


I’ve noticed women in Hollywood and everyday women treating themselves like body parts. In the 90’s women were obsessed with having bigger breast. They risked their lives and emptied bank accounts for silicon implants, regardless of the supposed health risk, and the bigger the better.

…… Fast-forward, the new trend is to have the biggest and roundest derriere, and the accessories TO GO WITH IT  like, outrageous weaves and stiletto nails, that resembles lethal weapons. Women are crowding gyms not for health reasons, but to carve out the best bottom they can. These same women attend the nail and hair salons as though it is a religious experience.

In my dumdfoundedness and curiosity,  I randomly survied women of various ages and ethnic backgrounds as to their fixation with having a large buttocks. Surprisingly, a majority of them had the same answer, “that’s what men want.”  OK.  it is understood that men are visual and women are emotional, but the women who think this way, they are  confused.

As quiet as it is kept, real men want women who dress classy and sexy but in a modest fashion. Question, what intelligent and emotionally mature thinking man, want with a woman who only thinks  of herself as body parts? Ladies, men desire the whole package, and I am not talking about your bodies.

Men of today, want women who exhibit intelligence, can hold down a good earning job, cook gourmet meals, clean and keep a house in order; and at night hold down his needs. That big derriere ain’t paying no bills and weaves and nails cost to maintain.

A final note, ladies you are a whole entity ( being) treat yourself as such.




5 thoughts on “Body parts and Accessories”

  1. Dear mad Dater do you remember one of my responses to your post when I said that the game has changed the game has definitely changed. Society has a new standard which blinds and cripples the mind of people all across the country problem is, no one knows where these Trends and ideas come from however they just seem to exist this is what we call it is what it is. However, since we have been trained by the generations to go with the flow which is why we have masses of people going to the extremes for what can be perceived sometimes as the wrong reasons. If We Don’t Unplug from the mantra that is the influence of society it may get worse and worse. I have been following your blog for a while and I can tell that you are very very old school. Problem with old school is that it doesn’t fit with the new school reasons being is because the generations are getting younger and younger I’m becoming more ignorant and unlearned question is how do we get back to the way things are supposed to be not just the way things used to be what say you?


  2. once again Mike Roach Jr. You are on point about the generation gap. Yes, I am from the baby boomer era and its difficult for me to the new ways of thinking about dating and relationships. That’s a good question that I would like answer to. How do we get back to doing things the right way?


    1. Hard to say, but back in the day when family structure was the moral backbone of society there was not a lot of promiscuity sex and illicit ideas being advertised on left and right. The age of the internet and social media does not help. I think we need more people to step up and think for themselves and not be programmed by The Who’s Who that are the quote un quote THEY in society. People stop thinking for themselves and allowed society and Technology to do it for them to me it’s all about personal accountability and individual responsibility

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