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STAY With Me

Dear Reader,

Commitment, promise, obligation, assurance or pledge, these are a few words that people use when they desire their partner to COMMIT to being involved in an exclusive relationship. To counteract this request men and women will come up with the most creative excuse as to why they do not want to seal the deal so to speak. In these modern times, developing a long-lasting partnership is becoming increasingly difficult to establish. The rules of partnership have changed because people want to test drive a relationship or want a trial period. Here are some facts people have been burnt, hurt, scorned, used, broken, and in some cases emotionally damaged beyond repair. Deep down inside we all desire to have a good, stable partnership, in my own personal opinion and experience relationships do not have to be as dramatic as some people make them. It is disparaging that we live in a society that seldom supports healthy relationships why? We are not creating an environment of support rather we turn our heads and pretend not to notice that couples, especially young couples are struggling with the basic knowledge of how to nurture each other and cultivate a solid foundation for their relationship. We live in a society where the means to fix a broken relationship is for each person to engage in relationships outside of their partnership, getting their needs meet because they claim that they are not receiving what they need from home. We have advanced into using any means necessary to avoid going home. Men calming they are working late and women take on projects that will keep them away from home. Better yet, one partner works in the daytime while the other works at night calming that this is the best solution for the children. There are hundreds if not thousands of books and article written by professional who claim to have a remedy to restore these damaged relationships. Maybe some of their suggestion and research-based solution might work for some, in the meantime, all of this dysfunction, drama and avoidance in relationships is all due to one simple word COMMIT.

What Say You?

5 thoughts on “STAY With Me”

  1. We live in a society of instant gratification. No one is willing to work on a relationship anymore. Relationships are a lot of work. And too many people enters them with a “ME” or “I” frame of mind. It’s can’t work if it’s all about what one person wants. It going to take a lot of compromising on behalf of both partners to make things work. Too often couples believe what they see in the media as to what a relationship is supposed to be. Believing it’s supposed to romantic and fiery hot every moment they are together. If it were you would soon burn the house down. LOL! The test driving arrangement thing has never worked for anyone because the person is entering the relationship looking for faults. If you look for faults you will find them. There’s no perfect relationship. A couple must work to make themselves harmonize with each other. It doesn’t just happen no matter how much in love they are.

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