Dear readers, Greetings from the mad Dater,
People make up too many relationships rules in order to control their partners.Some of these rules read like the Ten Commandments. Thy shall not have any other friends but me. Thy shall go out and have fun without me. Thy shall not have any privacy. Healthy boundaries should be established in any relationship, whether it’s between mother and daughter, father and son or an intimate connection between a man and a woman. People take these word, ” we are one” too serious to the point of being overbearing.
Question, should one partner have the right to snoop, open mail, check cell phone,hack into emails, inspect their mates social media page, listen in on phone calls, to be clingy and a stalker?
It is not a matter of being an open book, as some people claim we should be in a relationship. It’s not about keeping secrets, I am not referring to being deceitful. It’s about putting things in perspective. We don’t OWN our partners, and giving each other the proper space and alone time is good for both parties involved, its called growth.
There is a reason why its my phone, snail mail, Facebook page, etcetera. There will be a sharing, a person should have the freedom and time to open up, so to speak, without the fear of being interrogated to satisfy their partners insecurities.
WHAT SAY YOU?